Mechelle McNair
By: Troy | 05 July 2009 | 13 Comments »
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I am really sorry for his wife and kids. If he wasnt a cheating husband, he would not have died this way. Be strong Mechelle (not Michelle). You have all his funds now.
im so sorry to here about your husband it is so sad that he is gone because know you have so many question left unanswerd and it is hard to deal with knowing your husband died and you finding out about his affair @ the same time god bless you and your family it will be better days+
I know it seems hard now girl…. God knows exactly what to do and when…. Keep ur head UP, stay strong everything happens for a reason… happy shopping……
Men have to learn to honor marriage. God gives us a road map on how marriage is to be handled. I give you the story of Nabal in the Bible. This man insulted the man of God and he was going to lose his life for it. The woman of God talked to King David and convinced him that taking revenge would be against God’s will. (Revenge is mine thus said the Lord). When the woman of God returned home her husband was partying and drunk and didn’t receive her well. She retired to bed and the next morning her husband died. Later, King David remember her and took her as his wife. This is not to say that your loss is not great. As women, we love our men. Marriage gives a bond that is not to be broken. When someone we love goes outside of the covenent, a tear riped in the very soul of the person. You probably have mixed feelings about this situation. Don’t beat yourself and think what did I do. The Bible says that loves covers everything. Whatever you think you could have don’t to prevent this situation, DON’T. People know when they step outside of grace. They will block out the spirit that says, MY TEMPLE IS BEING DEFILED. Do you understand. No one can make you do anything. At some point, you allow the flesh to rule and you forget WHO YOU ARE AND WHOSE YOU. A CHILD OF GOD, FORGIVEN FOR SINS, NEVER TO RETURN TO THE FORMER LIFE WERE THE FLESH RULES.
Be in the WORD. Be surround by people in the WORD. STAY AWAY FROM those friends, family, anyone that wants to stroke your ego and not share the word. In those nights,when no one is around. You are not alone. God is present. Be in prayer. Be that strong black woman of the past that can’t be broken. This too shall pass. Wish the peace of God for you and your family. The truth shall make you free.
your sister in CHRIST
The Lord knows best and I send my heartfelt concern and love to you and your four boys. God Bless you and your children. Stay strong, for this is truly a devastating experience, and remember that you are not alone. You are just a Prayer away from those who care.
Mechelle you are a beautiful woman and i just want to let you know that i send out my sympathy to you and your family. keep your head up and God will bless you and your Children as well as your family as a whole.God takes people from us for many reasons that we may not understand, but we must learn to never question God why,cause everything that he does is all apart of his master plan.Just believe in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and you will make it.In due time your wounds will heal, but you will always have the good memories that you and Steve shared.I love you and God bless you..
First of all, God did not take Mechelle’s husband. The word of God says that Jesus came that we may HAVE life, and that, more abundantly. The WORD also states that the wages of sin IS death.
I know that people put this young man in a different category since he was a professional football player who had accumulated a lot of wealth. He may have had great gain and wealth, but it didn’t keep him alive. You can’t just live any kind of way and expect God’s grace and mercy to be available to you while you’re continuously living in sin. If Steve McNair knew ANYTHING about God, especially being a member of Bishop J.W. Walker’s congregation, he should have known that when you continue in sin and not take heed to the warnings that God gives you, He will turn you over to a reprobated mind. Then your conscience will be seared with a hot iron. To put it in layman’s terms, You don’t even attempt to stop sinning, you defy God, and you open yourself up to the devil to do with you just as he pleases. Because you don’t have the hedge of protection around you that only God can provide. Sister Mechelle, be encouraged. I’m not judging you or your husband, but the problem didn’t just start with the Iranian woman, it just ended with her. Hind sight is 20/20. I’m sure if the two of you had sought God for the solution to your marital problems, the outcome would have been much different. It greieves my spirit to know that children will be fatherless because her their father’s lack of good, sound judgement. It’s a Shame and a Disgrace for Steve to have gained the world and lost his soul!
Trust and believe in God Mechelle. My condolences to the 4 children. Have fun spending his MONEY!! He doesnt need a fabulous homecoming whether it be up or DOWN. Send him wherever(up or DOWN) in a cardboard box. I do know that it is easy for us to say all the things because as woman we love unconditionally, but I hope you have the strength to deal with all. Put God first and take care of those boys. May God continue to bless and guide you!! This may have protected you from deadly diseases, try to look at the bright side.
Mechelle, my heart goes out to you and your family. Your pain cannot be measured by those who are not you. You have done your work as a wife. God knows your heart. Lean not to your own understanding in this situation. This world seeks the answer that only God knows. You are a beautiful strong woman who has stood by Steve for better and for worse. Keep your head up high because you have no reason to doubt yourself. May today’s burden be lessened by tommotow’s words from God!
Mechelle, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. This time your going through is hard but keep your mind, heart and soul on God. Continue to stand on Gods word, and block out the negativity from the media and people around you. Listen God Loves you and your family. In your quiet nights when your heart feels overwhelmed, ask our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to comfort your heart, and to keep your mind in perfect peace. You may not understand it right now, but the Lord truely knows best. May the Lord continue to show his favor in your life and the life of your four boys. God Bless You!
God is Love!!!
Michelle, Keep your head up and look to God for he will surely direct your path, Only God know the answers to your questions and in due time he will give you the insight you need to carry on in this life what ever it might be. Just know you will make it throught with the help of God you will not fail. Pray and read your bible, God is always there for you.
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