Someone just take this girl to the car used to keep that child’s corpse, open the trunk, stick that girl Casey’s head in it and ask her “Now…why did you do it?!”

The grandparents know…they know

I wonder about Casey’s upbringing in light of all of this. Also why neither her family or friends seem to have been terribly concerned about her lying. Her family and friends seemed to have accepted the lies as part of her, and her as part of their groups. This could go back a long time . . . it appears she is truly a stranger to the truth as the judge said, and look at how voluminous her lies have been, that we know of.

A person can lie in a photo as well. Just because Casey was smiling in photos of her with Caylee does NOT MEAN she loved the child, or wanted the child. I see Casey as highly manipulative and cunning; and she would know when the camera was on her what people would want to see in a photo of her with her daughter. It could have all been part of the charade, so she could be in a better position to acquire what she really wanted. I don’t think Cindy was easy to deal with in that house for ANYone; she seems to run the program in the house, and living there could necessarily mean trying to remain in Cindy’s good graces.

Casey didn’t tell Cindy that she was even pregnant as I understand it, until she was several months along. Somewhere before giving birth, she talked with a friend about putting the baby up for adoption. She was never wanting to be a mother, and it shows, plus she could be psychopathic. I’ve read an opinion by a doctor that she was preoccupied with herself and narcissistic.

I think the grandparents deserve some element of understanding also. Yes, we see dysfunction in that family, but c’mon, there is dysfunction in so many, many families. None is perfect, and the Anthony’s have never claimed to be. We ought not expect them to model excellence for us, we should expect some dysfunctional behaviors I would think. But look at all they have experienced; first both Casey and Caylee take off, and stay gone w/no warning; next a month after the fact, they learn their granddaughter has been missing for a month; next suspicions of Casey grow exponentially and some have taken their frustration with Casey out on them. There have been protestors to deal with, and a much larger group of people to deal with, ongoing, than most people who’ve lost a loved one, and certainly they have wondered what really happened, but they can’t make Casey share with them either. Then their flesh and blood Casey is arrested as being responsible for their granddaughter’s death. While on the defensive, stressed and anxiety filled from all of this, Caylee’s body is found, murdered. And near their house, and the truth they’re being told to face is that their daughter did it. And now without allowed a real time of grieving — keep in mind they’ve had to be in the spotlight and on the defensive all the while, from protestors, police, questions asked of them by media . . . now they have the additional prospect before them of their daughter’s free life having ended and that she might end up dead as well from the death sentence, unless miraculously it is proven she didn’t kill Caylee, and that doesn’t look likely at present. Most parents don’t ever have to deal with any of this, let alone in a short time span. Most parents wouldn’t want to help their child receive the death sentence either, whatever their child has done. They’ve each voiced suspicions about Casey in the past, whether about lying, stealing, and with regard to the odor of death in the car. But consider they’ve likely been counseled by the defense who wouldn’t be doing their jobs without counseling the Anthonys to be conscious of what they are saying in public, having the potential to influence people and potential jurors in this death-penalty case. This would explain their focus having shifted from voicing their suspicions. They can’t be expected to be 100% objective and have ace analytical skills, call the shots with no emotion, and if they desire Casey to get a fair trial–and I think most people in this nation believe in the right to a fair trial for everyone in this nation–if they desire this for their daughter, they musn’t play judge and jury themselves, when they know a jury is going to decide her fate. I don’t agree with everything I see either, but I’ve never been in their situation. Pray for them; God sees the heart, and our motives and intents.

Here’s the link for the memorial video that I did…I am putting the address in brackets..Just’s copy the entire address that is in caps and paste it in your browser…CAYLEE’S MEMORIAL: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aesnC6nAmSk)